Holiday Season 016

8 Dec 2016

Holiday Season 016


More is More

29 Aug 2016

More is More


Fashion Museum | Bath

28 Aug 2016






     











Woof, that was a looot of pictures I am so sorry if I bored you but it's fashion history, two of my most favorite things ever combined so no shame in that. In fact I had way more pictures but I would have to split it in maybe three different posts so I just kept it short. This fashion museum was located in Bath, England. I visited there when I went to the Roman Baths but just NOW I am sharing these pictures with you guys, took a long while but finally I uploaded them into the blog.

I really really recommend going there if you ever are around Bath, mostly people go for the Roman Baths but if you are interested in fashion then for sure go check it out because they have items that are very unique that you will not find it anywhere else like J-Lo's iconic 2000's Versace dress. And you can also get to dress up at the entrance (just like the picture I post it first here)



Address: Assembly Rooms, Bennett St, Bath BA1 2QH, Royaume-Uni






Pineapple Express

1 Aug 2016

Pineapple Express


How to Be Single

27 May 2016

I've been trying to search for good movies to watch lately but in the horror genre is a shot and miss situation, they are so so so bad, painfully predictable it's crazy. In the romance genre? same thing. It is always the girl that ends up with a guy and they live happily ever after and blah blah. But holly mother of Hollywood! I just finished watching "How to be Single" starring Dakota Johnson and Fat Amy, I mean, Rebel Wilson, and let me tell you...it was awesome!! Honestly I though it was going to be just another rom-com where Alice ended up with the bar dude (spoiler alert) in the beginning of the movie but then another dude comes into the scene and then her ex keeps popping up too so you get three guys now that are a possibility for her to end up with but no....the end took a complete different turn (by different I mean really unpredictable in the typical rom-com field where a girl must by all means end up with a guy at the end of the movie).

I always kind of clinch by this idea, that's why I am not a big fan of romantic movies and all, is just really annoying that the woman always has to end up with a guy. Can't she like, live her life by herself? Or I don't know, do something else with her life besides having that perfect ending with the man? Is just ridiculous how in society there is this "schedule" or "law" that by a certain age we must meet someone, that being single is something to be fixed and is really really uncomfortable. I am not trying to sound like a bitter single lady that you all might be saying "she is just salty about this whole thing because she is single and she wants a boyfriend". Don't get me wrong, I am not hating on love here, love is beautiful in all its ways and meanings. I'm just saying how being single doesn't necessarily mean that is a bad thing. It is alright to be living your life all by yourself, and perhaps you will meet that person that you will want to spend the rest of your life with or perhaps not and you decide to go solo in life, either ways, it is totally fine.

I loved this movie because the end was something I was really not waiting for it to happen, as I mentioned previously, there were three guys as options and I was coming back and forth to with whom Alice would ended up with. At the end I was sure that it was going to be the bar guy again but then she realized that being alone, single, is totally fine, peaceful in its own. Being alone in that time of not being tied down with anyone is liberating, it allows you to discover yourself, to kind of learn how to be alone, all by yourself, having the company of your own soul, and me being single since I can remember, I can totally say that it's completely true. Of course there were times I wished I was in a relationship because it does look amazing to have someone in your life where you can call your lover and best friend at the same time, gee guys I am not a robot, but then again, why would I spend my life whining and complaining I am not in a relationship, that I really want to have a boyfriend, someone to cuddle at night and blah blah blah. No, honestly, in just like being in a relationship is cherished, so does need to be in being single, because there might be things you want to do by yourself that you wouldn't be able to once you are with someone. Am I sounding like as if once you have a boyfriend you are tied down and unable to do things by yourself? No no no, please do not think this, because being in a relationship is also liberating, you are sharing your life with someone else, and this in its own is truly an honor, but yes, there are things that you cannot do once you are tied down.

I feel like also people are so fixated into being in a relationship and finding the one so much that once they find someone, and ends up being the wrong person, they don't realize because they are not in love with the person but with the idea of being in love. That is why they end up with the wrong person all the time and are slaves to a very toxic relationship and most of times they are scared of leaving because there is that fear that they would not find anyone else who will love them again. But the truth is, being in a relationship means being absolutely yourself with that person and accepting that other person too by who they are and not depending on each other but co-existing together, learning from each other, being a positive influence, pushing each other forward.



So, single people out there, can we just enjoy this moment that we have to ourselves? We owe it to our souls too, to understand ourselves better. Because when we made peace with ourselves and we understand who we are, we will also understand who we want to spend the rest of our lives with. Just like Ru always says:



                                             CAN I GET AN AMEN UP IN HEARE?


 Or as Alice put it in the movie:

"The thing about being single is, you should cherish it. Because in a week, or in a lifetime of being alone, you may only get one moment. One moment when you are not tied up in a relationship with anyone. One moment when you stand on your own. Really truly single...and then, it's gone"







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